No Pain, No Gain

Xerxes Z. Herrington
Grand Orator

During the service this past Sunday, the sermon came from the Book of Romans, Chapter 5, Verses 1-5.

In those verses, it says “suffering produces perseverance, perseverance builds character, and character builds hope.”  In my past life the saying was shortened to “No Pain, No Gain.”  So, what does that actually mean, does it mean we should all suffer everyday in order to become better?

I don’t think so. I think it means: that which is worthy of our time and effort is worth working hard to obtain. That means everything:  your relationship with your God , your spouse’s hand in marriage, your relationship with your family,  your chairs through the Lodge, your education, your career, that trophy whitetail buck you’ve been seeing all summer long and that 10-pound bass you know lives in that deep hole on the river.

Yet, we see people slide through life with a variety of things basically handed to them: a promotion at work, the A grade to the teacher’s pet, the Master’s Chair in Lodge, the awards and recognition for those not really deserving. Yes, it’s all around us. I know, I’ve seen far too many promoted to positions they did not truly deserve but only because “it was their turn.” And yes, I know, they contribute nothing positive to the group.

Do we suffer from that in our Fraternity? Yes, unfortunately we occasionally do. Most commonly I hear them referred to as Title Seekers and Placeholders. They don’t really contribute to the betterment of the Lodge or to the Craft as a whole, but in most cases they don’t really do any harm. Nothing positive comes from these actions.  We have to stop this; it’s not benefiting the Lodge or the Craft.

However, what they absolutely do is this, they hold back a much more deserving, dedicated, and qualified Brother that could help the Lodge and the Craft grow. Secondly, they drive many good men away. If the rewards and recognitions continually go to the same group, if promotion is just a continual recycling of the same group, where is the incentive and motivation for others to remain in your Lodge or in our Fraternity?  There is none and I have seen too many Brothers leave never to return to the Lodge.

So, ask yourself, what can we do about it? We can start by working with our members to learn ritual, study Williams Digest of Laws, incorporate educational programs in our Lodge meetings, have the courage and take the initiative to support one who is more deserving of those positions and awards. If you don’t agree or understand something, have the courage to get up and ask WHY. Get more active in the day-to-day business of your Lodge, study the budget, ask the “Why” questions in Lodge. Learn a part in the ritual so that you don’t have only one person in your lodge that knows it.

If we truly want a better Fraternity, a better Lodge and a better relationship with our Brothers, we have to work for it. Do not sit idly by and allow the “That’s the Way We’ve Always Done It” attitude to rule your Lodge. Step up, work for it and put forth the pain and effort. Encourage others to do the same, support them, encourage them. Become a team that exemplifies the Craft, a Lodge that men seek to join.

Become The Example of a True and Worthy Brother.

Xerxes Z. Herrington, WM Petal Lodge #516
Grand Orator, Grand Lodge of MS

How do they know we’re still here?

Ricky Stevens
Internet Committee

I recently read a piece that included this quote by Grand Master William Sardone of New York. “The Greatest Generation didn’t talk about the Lodge. Baby Boomers never heard about the Lodge. Now, the Millennials can’t find a Lodge.”

Fifty years ago people saw the Square and Compasses every day.  Most Masonic Lodges were either on Main Street, the Town Square, or some other busy thoroughfare.  Masons bought ads in the high school year book and  announced meetings in the local paper.  Every year the local paper published a photo of the newly installed lodge officers.  There was probably even a sign on the highway announcing the presence of a Lions Club, Rotary Club, and Masonic Lodge to motorists.

A few years ago a gentleman went to the Chamber of Commerce office in my town and asked where the Masonic Lodge was. The nice lady replied that she didn’t think there was one.  (My lodge was chartered in 1847. It’s not like we’re a start up.)  A friend of mine is active in civic affairs in her town. When I told her I would be in town for a Lodge meeting she asked,  “Do we still have one of those?”

As Masons we do have secrets. However, our Lodge address, meeting nights, scholarship awards and the fact that we exist aren’t on the list of secrets.

Let’s tell people we are Masons.  Tell them, better yet, let’s show them who Masons are and what we believe.

Let’s wear our S&C lapel pin.  Put a medallion or Grand Lodge tag on our cars. Paint the sign at our lodges or put up a new one.  Take  a photo of our newly installed officers and send it to our  local paper. Participate as a lodge in our community functions.  Let people know we’re still around.  

In Matthew 5:5 we are told “Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house.”   Candles, like all fire, require heat, oxygen, and fuel.  A candle kept under a basket will soon consume all the oxygen and die out.
Let’s not hide our light, and die like that candle.  Instead, let’s show our Masonic light in our words and actions and spread some of that light to the world.

Ricky Stevens, Internet Committee
Grand Lodge of Mississippi

Masonic Service Recognition

For the month of June, 2019, The Grand Lodge of Mississippi will issue a total of 35 service certificates and pins: eleven 50 year, eight 60 year, fifteen 65 year, and one 70 year.


Oftentimes we hear the conversation of how we might go about engaging the men of the millennial and younger generations. But what about these tried-and-true men?


It is quite possible that some of these men have remained dues-paying members, but have not attended lodge in some time. Why not? Should your lodge be solely focused on who might be petitioning the lodge, or should it perhaps, first, focus on the men who have remained?


What would you want when you are at that age that you might receive a certificate and pin recognizing you for 50, 60, 65, 70, or more years of service to Freemasonry? Now, Brethren, do unto others, as you would have them do unto you.

Jared Stanley, Grand Secretary
Grand Lodge of Mississippi

Freemasonry is not Free

Jason Jefcoat
Grand Master

What are you going to do to improve Masonry in Mississippi?  This is a question that was posed to me shortly after I was installed as Grand Master.  The answer is very simple.  We are going to give you the opportunity to make your Lodge better.  How?  We want to encourage every Lodge to work more, meet more, and yes, do more.  

We believe that if your Lodge does not meet every week it is dying. 
Let me repeat that.  If your lodge does not meet every week it is dying.

If you were to only attend your Church one day a month, how long would it be before you got out of the habit of going?  When your community drives by your Lodge and the parking lot is full, people want to know what is going on.  When four or five Lodge members meet at the Lodge to work on the building, it encourages other members to participate.  When you take advantage of the opportunity for Masonic Education, you are giving yourself the tools you need to be a better person and a better Mason. 

If you want to be more than just a card carrier, you must invest your time and, yes, your money into your Lodge.  Building improvements cost time and money.  Meals at the Lodge cost time and money.  Good Masonic Education cost time and money.  

Are you beginning to understand my point?  If the Lodge building needs painting, who is supposed to provide the labor and the paint?  When the Lodge has a meal, who is supposed to cook and provide the meal?  When quality instructors in Masonic Education are brought in, who is supposed to reimburse them for their time and expenses?

What it all boils down to is the simple fact that your Lodge and your Masonic membership are only worth what you are willing to invest.  Freemasonry is not free! 

Jason Jefcoat, Grand Master
Grand Lodge of Mississippi

Be Pure

Keith Ballard
Senior Grand Deacon

In years past, being a Mason had a connotation of being someone honest and of the highest moral character. Sadly over the years, l feel that our reputation has suffered an unwanted change because of a laxness in some that have been initiated into our great fraternity who seem to frequently forget their obligations. Let us join together in ensuring that our generation rights this wrong by practicing faithfully a sincere effort to make ourselves PURE:

P– Purge yourself of all the vices and superfluities of life so that your character can better be fitted for that spiritual house not made with hands eternal in the heavens.
U– Under no circumstance allow your integrity to be compromised. 
R– Restrain yourself from exhibiting behavior that is unbecoming to a person who was created by a Holy God.
E– Exemplify light wherever you go and whatever you do so that others see a quality in you to be imitated, not avoided.

In other words, my brethren, let us all strive to be true MASONS!

Fraternally submitted, 
M. Keith Ballard, SGD 
Grand Lodge of Mississippi, F&AM

“What do y’all do in that lodge?”

How should we as Masons answer that question?  
Here are a few answers I saw in a recent Facebook discussion after a man asked the question “What do y’all do in that lodge?”

“You know Masons, it’s a secret.”

“Oh, you know. Try and control the universe. Sacrifice goats. Clean the kitchen. Eat babies. Basically everything you’ve YouTubed.”

“Argue about money.”

“We mind our own darn business.”
“Choose world leaders and solve problems. How are we doing?”

“If I tell you, you will not believe me. Better I shut my mouth until you found out yourself.”
“How to ride a Goat”

This one really stood out to me: “My answer is I could tell you, but I’d have to kill you. And that seems to satisfy their curiosity.”

Now tell me, was the man’s curiosity truly satisfied, or did he just give up?  And do we really want to satisfy his curiosity, or channel it into further inquiry?


And then there were these replies

“How my brethren and their loved ones are doing; and how we, as a group, can help our community.”
 “Brotherhood, friendship, charity, friendship” “I would take that as an opportunity to say why don’t you come with me. We’ll feed you a good meal and you can meet a few of the brothers and maybe decide to see what we do for yourself.”

Let’s ask ourselves, what do we do in that lodge?  Are we building better men, or are we building a wall that keeps other good men out? 

-Anonymous

By Way of Disaster

Keith Ballard
Senior Grand Deacon

There are very few things in this created world of ours as serene and beautiful to me as mountains.

According to the scientific community, these scenes that are so tranquil and peaceful to us have not always been that way. In fact, scientists have offered the explanation that the formation of some of these beautiful, majestic monuments was caused by the earth’s tectonic plates smashing together. This surely would not have been a tranquil and peaceful scene. The noise, vibration, force, and disaster emanating from this event must have been tremendous.

Yet, after the cataclysmic event, it has become one of the more beautiful, peaceful, and serene things that we are blessed to be able to enjoy.

So it is in our lives. We endure what seems to us to be cataclysmic events, or disasters, during the course of our lives; events that seem to be hopeless at the time we face them. It seems to us that the “smashing together ” will never end.

The Great Architect knows how to design and build useful, tempered characters and lives, as well as a Universe. Our Great Creator uses these events in our lives to temper us and create results that are just as serene and beautiful as the mountains.

So when you hear the noise, feel the vibration, experience the smashing, and are burdened with the chaos of events in your life, have faith in our Creator that He is at work preparing you for that tranquil, peaceful time that is sure to come.

Fraternally submitted,
M. Keith Ballard, Senior Grand Deacon
Grand Lodge of Mississippi, F&AM

How Do We Look to Others?

Ricky Stevens

As Masons we are told to walk uprightly and to conduct ourselves properly at all times.  

This obligation does not end at our keyboards.   Some Masons who would never dream of using foul language in Lodge or in Church seem to think nothing of posting vulgar or offensive words or photos to social media.   Some of these Masons even use the Square and Compasses as their profile pictures!

Please stop and think before you post or share.  Ask yourself, is this something I would want my mother, wife, or daughter to see?  Are these words or images ones I would want repeated or displayed in my lodge?  Is this the example of Freemasonry I want to set for the world?  And remember, the internet is forever.  Once posted, those words or pictures never go completely  away.

As Masons we are also instructed to give a quiet word of advice or correction to our brothers if needed.  Again, that obligation does not end at the keyboard.  Let’s make a point to ask each other, “Brother, did you really mean to post that?  Are you sure that’s something that should be associated with the S&C on your page?”

Let’s think before we post, and keep an eye on our Brothers.    
Be the Example.

Ricky Stevens, Internet Committee
Grand Lodge of Mississippi

Lodge Distractions

Jason Jefcoat
Grand Master

We have in some of these articles discussed the impressions we make on the public around us. What impressions are we making on the men in our Lodges? I think sometimes we forget that when we attend Business Meetings, Degrees or Schools of Instruction, I guarantee, we are being noticed.

What are we telling these Brothers about what it means to be a Mason?
Are we part of a group that sits together on the sideline and talks the entire time? Do we constantly look at our phones, texting, or look at social media? Or are we causing some other distractions for the degree team or the instructors? Do we look for the first opportunity to leave early? I guess what I am really asking is why are we at the lodge?

A very large benefit of Freemasonry is socializing with our Brothers. However, would it not be a better discussion and less distracting to the lodge if we were in the dining hall? There is absolutely a time for conversation. It just is not when a new member is being initiated or during a meeting.

Perhaps you are the Lodge Secretary and you need to gather the different items to give to a new member. Would it be possible to do this when the candidate is in the anteroom? Maybe before the Lodge is opened? How about after it is closed?

Are we more interested in whatever is on our phones than the meeting? Several years ago, we had a Grand Master that issued an edict charging anyone whose phone went off a $50 fine. Phones ringing, beeping, playing music, etc. are all very distracting, but so is the blue glow a phone emanates while we are obligating a candidate.

Do we jump up to leave as soon as the Lecture starts? Leave a school as soon as we eat lunch? Is there someplace we would rather be?
Whether you are talking, playing on your phone, plundering through filing cabinets, or leaving at the first opportunity you are telling everyone in the room, especially the new members, that you would rather be somewhere else.

What it all boils down to is something a good friend of mine says: “We may have seen and heard all this a hundred times, but to someone it is all brand new.” Don’t we owe it to our fraternity to do everything we can to guarantee that everyone has the same great experiences we remember when it was new to us?

Fraternally submitted,
Jason Alan Jefcoat, Grand Master
Grand Lodge of Mississippi

Thriving Relevance

Jared Stanley
Grand Librarian

Numerous are the occasions where, throughout history, a small group overwhelmed their larger opposition. Perhaps this took place on the battlefield. Perhaps it was in the halls of justice, or in the various congresses and assemblies where the rights of all people were fought for. In these instances, it was not the size of their group that won the day, but their fortitude – that cardinal virtue which is so frequently extolled in Freemasonry.

Yet, these are all groups of individuals. And, as individuals, mankind has produced world-changing results, from religious guidance to scientific discoveries, to philosophical understanding, and to be that one voice that leads their group – perhaps to war, or perhaps to peace.

Freemasonry is but a group of individuals. Individuals with a generally similar mindset and worldview, yet at times with vast differences in how best to accomplish their goals and purposes. This is but one reason why each and every individual is important to our fraternity. If we can unquestionably learn anything from history it is, perhaps, that one person really does make the difference. One viewpoint. One word spoken. One action taken.

Whatever our membership numbers are – locally, regionally, nationally, or globally – the individual remains. The ability to act upon the square, still exists. The ability to persevere in the practice of every commendable virtue, still exists. The ability to enforce, by precept and example, the tenets of our Institution, still exists. These are the virtues, characteristics, and actions upheld and made by individuals, and are only made stronger when such individuals assemble together.

Freemasonry is relevant today, and will be relevant tomorrow, because of the innumerable individuals who still look to improve themselves, and because those individuals will, naturally, be attracted one to another. All that remains is for us to remember the command as found in the Epistle to the Ephesians: “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.” If we do, success is the only possible result. Freemasonry, notwithstanding, will not only survive – it will thrive.

Fraternally,
Jared Stanley, Grand Librarian
Grand Lodge of Mississippi